Brett Carlsen/News Dog MediaWhen Pauline Hussle married his wife Vanessa Hussle, the two weren’t able to make it work and ended up getting divorced in 2006. However, they managed to patch things up. Now the man is back with wife… along with two more women. Pauline is currently in a polygamous relationship with:
- Vanessa
- Hazel
- Lady
It all started with Vanessa. The two lovebirds met in university and ended up getting married. But after three years, they split up. Vanessa had hoped that they would eventually get back together. And lucky for her, they did.
Now the couple live alongside 27-year-old Hazel and 25-year-old Lady as a foursome in New Jersey. In addition to being Pauline’s wives, the girls claim to be the best of friends.
The group is just like any other couple. They go on dates together, hang out together, and even conduct in a bit of “hanky pinky” as a foursome.
Brett Carlsen/News Dog MediaBut before they were all polygamists, it was just Vanessa and Paulie. The two were married in 2003 and had two children together. They couldn’t make it work as a monogamous couple and separated in 2006.
News Dog MediaThe ladies act as regular “wives” and do everything together. They cook, clean, and raise their three kids – two from Vanessa, and one from Lady.
News Dog Media“When Vanessa and I began having problems in our marriage and broke up, I started seeing Hazel and then, Lady too,” revealed Pauline. “I felt so guilty about what I was doing because I still loved my wife. I wanted to be with these two other women but I also wasn’t ready to give up on Vanessa.”
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When Vanessa first heard of the news that Pauline was juggling other women. She was furious. “Initially I hated the thought of these two women – they made my blood boil,” she said.
Brett Carlsen/News Dog Media“I told my friends that if I ever met Hazel and Lady, it would end in a fist fight! But over time, I came to understand what Pauline was feeling and I became attracted and in love with these women too.”
Brett Carlsen/News Dog MediaBut Paulie was an optimist. He hoped this relationship could work. “Vanessa was my best friend and my soulmate and I hoped we could still work things out as a foursome,” he said.
Brett Carlsen/News Dog MediaAs the relationship continued, Vanessa eventually found herself loving the idea. “When I told Paulie that I wanted to be in a relationship with him and Hazel and Lady, he cried tears of joy. It was like we had finally found happiness together – it saved our marriage.”
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Now, the girls embrace being known as “Paulie’s wives.” The girls have matching tattoos of their husband on their chest, while their husband Paulie has a tattoo of all three of them on his chest.
News Dog MediaHowever, this relationship isn’t easy. Paulie has to make sure he gives them all equal time with him. “I have a special calendar on my iPad which I have colour-coded for each wife to make sure that I take them on individual dates and give them the attention they deserve,” he revealed.
News Dog Media“‘But the four of us love to get dressed up and go out for fancy dinners together. People stare at us when we walk into restaurants but we don’t care.”
News Dog MediaAnd when it comes to getting intimate, Paulie revealed that he leaves an album on and they all take turns being with the man. Each girl gets him for the duration of one song.
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The four of them all run a polyamory blog documenting their lives. Paulie calls himself the “Lord of the Wives” while their social following has dubbed the ladies as “Paulie’s Wives.”
News Dog Media“Paulie is such a caring husband to all of us. Some people look at our family and think it’s a one-sided thing but we all love each other equally,” says Vanessa. “Lots of couple experience problems in their marriage but are too scared to explore other options. I couldn’t live without these two women now.”
News Dog MediaThe group are currently happy being a foursome, but are open to introducing more people into their relationship. In fact, they have had other women in the mix. “We’ve had two “wives” come and go – we jokingly call them divorces! But we still have chats with our ex-wives – they come round and visit. There’s never any hate,” revealed Lady.
Brett Carlsen/News Dog MediaBut would they ever bring a guy into the group? “People ask me if I would allow another man in the relationship. But it’s not my decision, just because I’m a man that doesn’t mean I run the show or make rules,” revealed Paulie. “I wouldn’t mind having another man at all. I let my wives do whatever they want, we don’t get jealous or overprotective.”
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